Summer tells Tom that people used to call her anal girl, it’s then clarified that this was because she was a clean freak.


Tom and Summer are in a sexual relationship, but it’s never overtly shown. In one instance, you see her bare back, as Tom walks toward her (a subtle homage to ‘The Graduate’), and in two or three instances, they’re seen kissing on a bed.
Tom and Summer rent a pornographic movie called “Sweet and Shower”, and as they watch it (nothing shown or clearly heard), she says “That’s doable.” You then see a shower curtain, as the water runs, and frantic movement is seen (sex is implied).
Summer tells Tom about one of her ex-boyfriends, whom she called “The Puma”. A picture is shown of the man, and the camera zooms in on the man’s bulge shown through his pants.


Sexual references are made throughout: Talk of lesbians and gays; a brief scene where Tom and Summer go to an art gallery with art that looks like sexual organs and pieces of excrement; one picture includes two dogs having sex. They go to a movie that is called “Part Vampires, part Giants: Vagiants”; They go to a park (with kids around) and yell out “penis” ( a several times, very loud) louder than the other as a bravery challenge. Brief reference to a hand job and a “humjob”.

In an “Expectations vs. Reality” split screen, he imagines him kissing and caressing her post-breakup until they go into a closet.


Film review:Translated by www.rabudo-ru.com


I just came back from the movie with my baby. “500 days of summer” – 500 days of summer “, I was very excited and had a lot of thoughts. I couldn’t calm down. I must write down everything I think of right away and record it here. About love, about the right person, about destiny. However, first of all, I will talk about the plot of the film here. If you don’t want to know, you can watch the film first and then watch what I wrote.

This movie seems to be telling my story. No, it’s not just mine. It’s a story with similar plots that happen around us every day, every hour and every moment. Tom met summer, the new girl in the office. She is cute, charming, confident and a little mysterious. In fact, Tom liked her first, but before Tom confessed, summer first expressed his favor to Tom, and she kissed him. They played in IKEA, held hands, went to the CD store and watched movies happily. When summer was moved, he threw himself into Tom’s arms and cried… Everything was beautiful and beautiful. They liked the same singer, the same music, sex was great, and everything was perfect. But summer told Tom that she didn’t want to be who, and she thought no one in the world belonged to anyone, It’s great to belong to herself, so she doesn’t want a boyfriend. She’s not Tom’s girlfriend either. As a boy, I don’t say no to this unstable relationship. Tom was a little disappointed when he heard what summer said, but he agreed. Because he really likes this girl, and he thinks he is different from others. For summer, he is special and unique. In particular, summer told him something about her past – she said she hadn’t mentioned it to anyone before. But Tom is a person who believes in love. He is really involved. He really cares. He can’t help asking summer what their relationship is. Summer said I don’t know, but we are fine now. I’m very happy, and you’re also very happy, aren’t you. Tom is in love and suffering. He can only keep telling himself that maybe one day summer will find out. Maybe after a long time, summer will be willing to settle down and find that she loves him. They played games on the grass and stuck to each other. Tom drew on summer’s arm. After they quarreled, summer braved the rain to find Tom and apologize to him

However, this is the reality. After they fell in love for a year, summer was no longer as enthusiastic as before. She won’t laugh at the same joke before. When she saw crying in the movie, she stopped crying in Tom’s arms. Finally, she said to Tom, let’s not continue like this. We are friends. Tom didn’t understand why at all, and summer didn’t give him an answer. He just resigned. Tom thinks the sky is falling down. He buys JD every day and lies in bed. He thinks summer is the one. He thinks summer is the girl he loves most in his life. He thinks no one can feel like summer. He loves her. He only loves her. Without her, he won’t get love again. So he was depressed, in pain, listening to the music they had heard together, crazy on the bus… Time passed.. Once when Tom went to a colleague’s wedding, he met summer on the train. Tom pretended to be calm… They drank coffee and chatted happily… Everything was fine… They went to the wedding together. The men dressed up very handsome and the women dressed up very beautiful ~ told jokes that they knew each other, drank wine and danced… Finally, summer told Tom that she was going to have a party at the weekend and invited Tom. Tom accepted it happily. On the train back, summer fell asleep next to Tom’s shoulder. Tom feels very happy. He thinks summer is coming back to him

At the weekend party time, Tom envisioned everything as a chance for him and summer to make up. The reality is that summer does regard him as a friend. When he accidentally found that summer was engaged, he finally couldn’t stand it and ran out… Suddenly all the high-rise buildings turned into ice. Suddenly all the spaces turned gray. Suddenly all the sounds disappeared. Suddenly he couldn’t even find himself

Tom suffered for a long time… Drinking, getting drunk and quitting his job. He designed cards. He believed in love, destiny, dreams, beauty, sweetness, happiness and trust… But summer ruined everything. What is love. He doesn’t understand it himself. He’s lost. He doesn’t want to continue designing cards. He hates to see any sweet and happy words again. Because it’s all fake, it’s all lies. Everything is a lie.

He began to focus on the architecture he had always loved. He began to draw carefully and went to various major construction companies for interviews. He failed again and again, but he still didn’t give up. After one of the interviews, he went to the grass where he used to love to go with summer, because there he could see his favorite building. He didn’t expect to meet summer here. Summer is a little fat. She looks pregnant. Tom congratulated her on getting married. Summer said, if you really bless me, bless me. Tom was silent.

They sat in the same chair and talked as if they had done it.

Tom’s words are sour: it’s funny. When one day I really found that the love, destiny, dream and beauty I once believed are all lies and false. It’s ironic that no one belongs to anyone. (summer said before that she didn’t believe this.)

Summer said: No. You know, one day when I was sitting in a coffee shop reading a book, a boy came up to me and asked me about the author. Now he’s my husband.

Tom said, that’s a coincidence, isn’t it. I just don’t understand. You said you didn’t want to be anyone’s girlfriend. Now you’re someone else’s wife.

Summer: that’s amazing, isn’t it? What if I went to the movies? What if I’m not reading that book? What if I arrive at that cafe ten minutes late I believe it. I believe it now. I often think that Tom is right. Tom, you’re right, just.. I’m not that person.

Tom’s beliefs were destroyed by summer, but now summer believes in himself. In the end, summer will leave. Tom smiled at summer and said, I really hope you are happy.

Then Tom met another girl in the next interview… 500 days about summer, that’s the end.

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The boy fell in love with the girl who didn’t want to settle down. The girl just liked him, but didn’t love him. They broke up. The boy was so painful that all his beliefs were destroyed. He felt that the girl was his only one, his destiny and his true love. But when the girl met her destiny, met her true love, got married quickly, and was very happy… Finally, the boy woke up and started all over again.

Isn’t this the story that happens around us every day? It even happened to ourselves, or at some time, “a girl fell in love with a boy who didn’t want to settle down…”

Writing here, my heart still beats very fast, because I am so moved. I am one of the countless people in the world who has experienced such a story. At the beginning of the story, I told BB that it was very familiar, wasn’t it? In the middle of the story, I told BB, do you want them to be together at last? I don’t want to. I hope Tom meets another girl and starts over. This is life. A happy ending is not true. They are really separated. That’s true. As a result, I was right. Therefore, I love this film, it is very real, it is very encouraging, it can tell all the children who are still confused – he / she is not your true love, not your only one, you just need time.

If you don’t love you, it won’t be your true love. Not the one.

As Zhang Xiaoxian said, selfishness, willfulness, pride, playfulness and so on are not the biggest problems in love. No matter how good he is, no matter how good he is, you can never convince yourself that he doesn’t love you.

I asked myself if I was qualified to write everything now. I once thought someone was my only one. I once thought he was the true love of my life. Without him, I can’t live anymore. The tears I shed for him can gather into a small lake. I get drunk, smoke and hurt myself. I lose more than 10 kilograms in a month. I lose myself. I no longer believe in love… He controls my thoughts, my life, my everything, I love what he loves, I hate what he hates, and I think again and again that he will come back to me. I even… I even tolerate him to deal with me and another girl at the same time. Again and again, I believe he will turn back in the end. I believe he will always find that he loves me

Maybe some people have experienced these things, but I have also experienced that he has been cheating me to break up with that girl and entangled with me, and I found that there is no such thing at all. As a result, three people came out to talk and six eyes met. He told me personally that he liked her and he had no feeling for me… Then I left the room alone and walked home late at night… Like the lines in a movie. “At dawn, I didn’t dream or die.”

However, I didn’t give up myself. I know I want to love myself. I want to live well, re-enter my life circle, start making friends again, enrich myself, do everything seriously, make myself happy and laugh from my heart again… Then I met him now. It’s all over again. For the first time in four years, I felt loved again. For the first time, I felt I was in love. Moreover, it was not him who loved me. The beliefs I lost, the ones I believed, I picked them up one by one. I can love again. There are people in the world who can really make me nervous, make me care, make me happy and make me feel sweet. This time, it’s not just me giving. I love him and he loves me. Everything I gave, suddenly there was a response. My signature became “I am very happy, very happy, very happy, very happy…”

The feeling of love may have existed, but I forgot. In the last relationship, later, the pain has been far greater than the happiness.

But now I clearly remember the feeling of love. That day, in London, the weather was very good. It was soft and blue. The sun was warm on every pedestrian. The baby was wearing a white shirt and a blue knitted coat. We stood at the pancake store next to the subway station to buy muffins. Warm chocolate muffins covered with sweet white cream. I looked into his smiling eyes and kissed his chocolate flavored mouth. The sun warmed my whole body. I was so happy that I could hardly breathe. I was so happy that the whole person was like cream on a muffin. It was about to melt away… This is the taste of love, this is the taste of love~~

I once joined a group “I’m fine, just miss you”. The girls inside are all abandoned children. They are suffering and suffering. They aftertaste the beauty of the past every day and night, and push themselves into the past memories all the time. I made several posts about being strong, standing up and looking forward, but they were soon pushed to the second page. However, those posts expressing pain, sharing how reluctant I am, and talking about how sad I am are warmly responded by everyone. Later, I quit the group. I know why these girls have been suffering so much, because they are willing to suffer so much. No one forces them, nor does life force them. If they don’t want to stand up, no one can help them.

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