In the nude scene, we partially see her frontal nudity (breasts, etc.). Brief glimpses of nipple areas are visible in the scene. Very little pubic hair/region is visible.
Ted and Phyllis lie naked in bed, presumably after having sex; she leaves the room fully nude and talks to Billy as she struggles to cover herself (we see one of her breasts, her buttocks, and little of her pubic region).


Film review:Translated by www.rabudo-ru.com


When I was in college, the foreign teacher once played the film “Mr. and Mrs. Kramer”, which is said to have won many Oscars, in the audio-visual class, but I basically didn’t understand it, and so far I have no impression of the plot. Now I pick it up and cry. This moment is another moment. 23 years ago, I didn’t even taste love, let alone marriage? I also don’t understand one thing: when I was a graduate student, there were often married older doctoral students who said it was good for you to be single when playing cards with us. Ask carefully, and they will tell you that it’s cold and autumn. This hand is really smelly. Unfortunately, I was still an old virgin at that time. I didn’t understand the advantages of being single.

However, as a line in the movie “farewell to the city” says: marriage is cruel! This sentence is much more true than the empty promise that we will live happily together forever after marriage. Andre in war and peace goes to war in order to escape the ordinary marriage life. In the history of mankind, there have been wars. Knowing that running away may lead to the return of the corpse, or even become an unclaimed indefinite River bone, but someone has been going all the time. For an idealist, what is more terrible than being cannon fodder is to spend his life by the triviality of life.

People’s pursuit is really different. If we accept each other’s differences and don’t try to change each other, we can barely live, otherwise it’s really difficult. I don’t know what’s the hurry for leftover women and singles. “Running in” may not be completed in a lifetime. I went to an old professor of music yesterday. His wife runs a wedding dress business at home, which annoys the old professor. I don’t even know how they work together. I saw the secret when I went out. Their garage is not connected to the house, but in a separate place, opposite the yard. There is a small room beside the garage. When his wife’s customers came to see the wedding dress, the old man ran to the house next to the garage to do his own business. The two sides did not interfere with each other.

Many things in the world, including marriage, would be much simpler if no one participated. People are such strange animals, which makes it difficult to cut off all ties. Before the filming of Mr. and Mrs. Kramer, the director found Dustin Hoffman, and the film was almost tailor-made for him. But Hoffman was breaking his muscles and bones and getting divorced. Compared with reality, he felt too superficial after reading the script. Many women have no empathy. They can’t get through each other’s situation. They only think of their own unhappiness. They can’t think that the frustration of marriage also does great harm to men. Hoffman himself was trapped by the failure of his marriage at that time. It was too cruel to take this film. The first appointment with the director, he came down from the hotel room to the lobby. He didn’t want to have a long talk in the room and was ready to hurry away. As a result, out of the consideration of spiritual healing, he took it down. Before shooting, he lived in a hotel with the director, polished the script for a long time, and then began shooting. This is the same thing as quitting smoking. Hiding a cigarette so that you can’t find one is also quitting smoking. Some people can put cigarettes everywhere, which is also a kind of abstinence. Hoffman finally chose to face all kinds of stimulation of divorce topic and deal with divorce in reality by shooting divorce.

This film is about the upbringing of children after marriage failure, which involves almost all aspects of the placement of children in divorce: abandoning children, parents and children, competing for children and returning children. The film is adapted from the novel Mr. and Mrs. Kramer by avery Corman. His most famous work is Mr. and Mrs. Kramer and 50 published in 1987. These two works are full of talent, but the author didn’t do much later. One of the reasons may be that the priorities of career and life at home are not handled well, so we have to take care of one thing and lose the other. His wife is publisher Judy Corman, who brought Harry Potter to the United States. When she died, she was vice president of scholastic. They have two sons, two people who are very successful in their careers, and children. One has to make some sacrifices. In a family, if both husband and wife only care about themselves and refuse to compromise for the family, the bad luck will be the children, and then the whole family.

When the original author wrote Mr. and Mrs. Kramer in the 1970s, the smoke of the feminist movement had not dissipated, and the topic of women going out to pursue themselves was still very new. The heroine Joanna is also a highly educated woman. After marriage, she looks after her husband and teaches her children at home and feels like she has lost herself. Her husband was so busy at work that she didn’t pay enough attention to her that she decided to leave her husband and son and run away from home. The film begins with a close-up of Joanna (Meryl Streep). She says goodbye to the child affectionately because she is leaving. Only in fact, a woman is so cruel that even her children can be willing to abandon it. If people judge, it’s understandable. But three feet into the water, you see different scenery. When watching this film, I hope you will dispel any prejudice that this woman is an asshole. Joanna is actually a mother. She loves her children. When the children are after school, she often goes to the cafe opposite and looks through the glass from a distance. She realized that her mind was not sound and belonged to the type that exploded in silence. She has considered carefully that staying at home will not only drive her crazy, but also affect her children. What she wanted to leave was not material. Before she left, she only took away 2000 yuan she had joined before her marriage. She wants to find herself.

Emotionally, most people may still be more sympathetic to their father and mother husbands. Teddy, played by Hoffman, finally understood the reason why his wife ran away. He blamed himself more and didn’t let his children resent his mother. In the film, he told his son that when someone told you he was sorry, don’t hold a grudge and make the other party uneasy for a long time. The father is a very responsible real man. Such qualities are usually hidden. When his wife runs away, they are all inspired. It may also lick the calf’s love and make him reborn. Later, the husband and wife fought against each other in court in order to fight for their children. Although the lawyers were ruthless, these debates also turned over their five flavor bottles. The husband and wife really knew each other after divorce, but there were too many injuries, and it was impossible to reunite.

The film breaks many stereotypes about the roles of husband, wife and parents. Teddy’s speech at the court debate is very classic. He said he could understand that housewives went out to find themselves, and he could accept it. If society can get rid of this stereotype, why can’t it break the fallacy that mother must be a better “parent”? After the screening of Mr. and Mrs. Kramer, Teddy’s questioning forced the whole society to rethink the role of parents, which even changed the thinking of many judges in the marriage court. In divorce cases, young children are often awarded to their mother. The father only sends money to raise them, leaving only obligations. He doesn’t visit many times, so he can’t fully enjoy the family happiness between father and son. In the film, the child was awarded to his mother, which was a portrayal of the social reality at that time. Now, not all children will be awarded to their mothers. In the film, the qualities of “permanence” (including the sustainability of a relationship) and “stability” (including professional stability) repeatedly mentioned by the male lawyer can affect the judge’s decision more than simple gender differences. Judges are more concerned about which side is best for children’s growth. This change is also due to the film. A mother can also make her children feel insecure. When people think of the failure of marriage, they often think of the reasons for their husband, such as eating, drinking, whoring, gambling, focusing on work and ignoring family. The existence of these people is a fact, but don’t forget that irresponsible women are also everywhere. They put the frustration of relationship management on the man, blame the man for his lack of love and attention, and so on, forming high expectations for their husband and no requirements for themselves. Women may also be the main cause of relationship failure.

There are no bad people in marriage. Both husband and wife may be good mothers, good fathers, or even good people, but it’s common that they can’t get along with each other. It’s hard to establish a distance. It’s hard for children, which deduces countless joys and sorrows. At the end of the film, the mother who won the lawsuit, considering that the home built by her father is more beneficial to her child, took the initiative to return her child to her father, which can be said to be a small reunion in non reunion. The result is good in art, but in reality, it is too romantic. Most divorces and Breakups are very ugly. They fight for property and children. They are so ugly that outsiders can’t see it, but no one can intervene. Any decision is traumatic. Divorce is like amputation. If the operation is successful, the arm or leg will be lost. This regret is lifelong and irreparable. It can solve some problems, such as finally ignoring the spouse’s family, but it creates many new problems, such as child rearing. These new problems are not necessarily easier to solve than the old ones, and each is different, and there is no experience to learn from. Marriage is a road of no return. It really can’t end until death. The only relief may be to become indifferent to everything. The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. However, once adults begin to care, children may follow suit and eventually become cynical and lack the ability to love. Therefore, there is almost no foolproof plan for this matter. No matter which result is harm. In case of divorce, it’s best to catch up before you have children. After having children, it can be handled well, but after all, it is rare.

Knowing that the divorce results are chaotic, the divorce rate in the United States is still very high, and even half of marriages end in failure. It’s not easy for them to settle down. When a tooth is broken, Chinese dentists will not pull it out unless they have to, because they believe that teeth and appetite are closely related to other parts of the body. In addition, their parents should not abandon their body and skin. American dentists are very radical. They tend to let you pull out when they can or can not, so as not to affect the whole body and quality of life. This thinking is also reflected in marriage and family. For low-quality marriage, most of them choose to end and look for a new life. At this time, the placement of children has become the biggest problem in the middle.

After years of economic survival in China, people pay too much attention to the sense of security brought by materials. Up to now, even if the survival problem is solved, most people still put materials above everything and are careless in other aspects. When it comes to divorce, such as Li Yang’s divorce not long ago, I have read many comments. In the comments, people first mentioned the division of property. When Americans divorce, they think more about taking care of children’s mental health, which is more important than anything in divorce. I think they did the right thing. If you hurt the child’s heart, what can you do if you win the golden mountain and the silver mountain? People live a lifetime, even their children’s happiness and peace can be ignored. What’s the difference between living and walking dead? Children after divorce usually blame themselves and suspect that their mistakes or deficiencies have led to the breakdown of their parents’ marriage. The father played by Hoffman in the film is very responsible, which dispels the child’s concerns in this regard. Teddy’s grievances are great, but after all, adults have a stronger ability to deal with misfortune. It’s too cruel for children to deal with problems that don’t weigh with their mind. Teddy resolutely refused to let the child go to court to answer questions. In addition, in the process of divorce, the husband and wife quarrel and hate, and the children are very difficult. One side is the father and the other is the mother. Who do you want them to choose to stand in line? Some scum parents let their children be spies, inquire about each other’s actions, or let their children be messengers to force their children to do such things. They really don’t deserve to be parents or even people. It is immoral and irrational to provoke children to hate each other or their families in order to win their children’s love. Children will understand the truth one day. They will despise their parents’ selfishness and smallness.

Being a parent is a great responsibility. For a person who only cares about himself and expects others to take care of himself, and does not intend to take care of and care for others, being single is a better choice. Cultivating qualified parents is what a nation should focus on. It is far more important than filial piety. At the same time, marriage is fragile enough. If the big family cannot take care of the small family and make it develop harmoniously and healthily, it is also the irresponsibility of the elders. One generation has passed and another generation has come. Mankind always has to move forward.

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