Homesex movieThe Little Death (2014)Movie Sex & Nudity

The Little Death (2014)Movie Sex & Nudity

The film largely focuses on the relationship issues of the different couples, highlighting the sexual fantasy and peculiar quirks that some of the characters have.
A male character, who is often talked down to by his wife Maureen, realises that he gets excited watching her sleep, a condition known as ‘somnophilia’; while another female character tells her partner that her sexual fantasy is to be raped by him.
There are also sexual scenes between a couple. However, the scenes do not contain strong details as the shots are mostly focused on the characters facial expressions and upper body without portraying any nudity. They are seen having mechanical sex with man on top; with woman on top, the sex is very animated with thrusting, moaning and screaming.

Live-in girlfriend tells boyfriend she has a rape fantasy. After an unsuccessful attempt to “surprise” her, he sets up a scenario where hired actors in an underground garage pretend to rob them, knock him out and then assault her. However, it all goes wildly wrong. No sex. Some violence.
For example, one of the female characters realises that she gets sexually aroused when her partner cries, which is a condition known as ‘dacryphilia’. As such, she goes all out to manipulate her partner emotionally to get what she wants.
There is also a prolonged scene which involves an awkward three-way phone call to a sex line with various crude hand gestures and explicit sexual language used.



The little death has long been recommended. Since I became a sex worker (sex industry practitioner), my friends will send me anything related to sex as soon as they see it. Of course, this is a good thing. Many benefits are mixed in various news and resources, but it can also be clearly felt that “sex” is at most a matter of talking and curiosity in Chinese people’s daily life, and it is difficult to enter the topic field of serious communication. What I see here is that there is often an obvious content of banter and hype. I can receive many people’s Aite and recommendations before and after. However, few people mention such interesting and meaningful films as “love that sex”.

The main purpose of this article is to write this film and some things that come to my mind after watching it. Of course, there will be spoilers, but spoilers are not the theme of this article, and I think if you don’t want to see the spoilers, it must not be a good movie.

The film mainly tells the story of five couples (husband and wife). Each couple always has some “sexual quirks”. Of course, first of all, you have to define what is “weird” for you: mavev in Pual & mavev is masochistic, especially in the film plot, she always fantasizes that she has been raped, the so-called rap fantasy; The second couple is called Dan & Evie. The boy Dan has a strong desire for role-playing, so that the role-playing between the two often puts the cart before the horse, and gradually evolved into the vent of Dan’s personal desire to play instead of increasing sexual interest; The third couple is Richard & Rowena. They have been trying hard for three years to have children, but they have failed. The doctor told his wife that it may be because she didn’t reach orgasm during sex. Gradually, his wife found out the secret of her own orgasm and sexual desire, that is, when her husband-in-law was crying, the so-called dacryphilia, a tearful sexuality, That is, watching others cry will stimulate their sexual desire. As a result, they continue to use all kinds of lies to deceive their husband in exchange for sexual desire and orgasm; The fourth couple is Phil & Maureen. Husband Phil’s sexual desire comes only when his wife is sleeping. The so-called somnophilia sleep sexuality is that when peeping at others, he will have sexual desire, so that the husband secretly gives his wife sleeping pills in exchange for his sexual desire. Monica & Sam, the fifth couple, is a little special. Boys are deaf mute and girls are deaf mute video translators. However, deaf mute boys have telephone scatalogia, the so-called “obscene phone addiction”. The obscene phone calls of strangers can most make him mention his sexual desire.

The first two pairs seem to have a good understanding of m in SM and role-playing, but the last few pairs seem a little strange. But in fact, it depends on how you understand it. “Tear sense sexuality” can be understood as the abuser. The other party’s tears represent the state of being abused to a certain extent. Generally speaking, only the abuser’s personal abuse will make him feel pleasure and sexual desire. However, “tear sense sexuality” expands the direct causality between them. As long as he sees his partner’s tears, No matter whether this “abuse” is issued by yourself or not, you will feel pleasure. So that later, she even thought of watching tragic movies together, asking her husband to cut onions, hanging pictures of her husband’s dead father all over the room and so on to stimulate her husband’s tears. The “sleep sexuality” of the fourth couple is a little complicated. It belongs to paraphilias. If subdivided, “sleep sexuality” should belong to “predatory paraphilias” in Kinsey sexology report. This will not be carried out (because I don’t know much about XD).

Pot cover theory of “sexuality”

In fact, there is no need for a rigid understanding of “sexuality” like reciting concepts and words at school. Although the four sexualities involved in the film have clear definitions and explanations, and have their own Wiki pages, the “hobby” should have a more personal meaning at the same time. Everyone has his own hobbies in sex, such as ear biting and cochlear licking. Some people may have a great increase in sexual desire when they see thick pubic hair, while others may have sexual interest only when they see clean shaved genitals. However, it is also possible that you are extremely picky about the length of reproductive hair (even hair XD), It’s impossible to control the length of 5mm (plus or minus 2mm) – what I want to say is that you must have different sexual interest points from most people and have your own motivation points. The so-called “sexuality” that you can call a name after summing up is nothing more than a vague definition. We have found a large enough “pot cover” to cover similar sexual interests. Let’s call it “pot cover theory” for the time being. But I don’t think it’s appropriate to take such a large and broad “pot cover” to find a specific counterpart in your sex. Just like you can’t take an industry to accurately explain your work, the “terminology” in sexuality is just to help you provide positioning and direction in the vast ocean of sexuality. It is a lighthouse to help you find your own sexuality. There is no need to define your personal sexuality. You just need to know it and let your sexual partner know it in an appropriate form.

Let your sexual partner know that you have a good sexuality. It’s easy to say, but you need to be careful. In the film, the sexual addiction between the four pairs of children and lovers is good. Without exception, they all end in tragedy. The reason is nothing more than communication. In the way of communication, being too direct and too implicit is not the best choice. As a result of being too direct, in addition to the fact that the partner may not be able to accept it, another is the loss of those fuzzy areas in sex, which is easy to become textbook sex and put the whole process of rolling sheets into a fixed mode. For example, in the first couple in the film, the girl directly put forward the “rape fantasy”, and then inevitably fell into a paradox: when she wanted to rape, it was no longer rape. Being too implicit has more problems. The tragedies between the latter two couples are all due to being too implicit or even concealing their sexuality.

Therefore, “good sexuality” is not morbid. The reason why it looks morbid on the surface is nothing more than communication: the peeping eyes of outsiders and the unsatisfactory communication between partners.

Finally, the film uses an exaggerated technique to make these originally independent and irrelevant tragedies meet together. In the car accident and death, it echoes the English name of the film “the little death”. Many people easily come to a strange conclusion that “you see, sexual perversion will come to a bad end”, but the director doesn’t mean that. You know, no matter what kind of mistakes and tragedies happen in sex, all these are not sexual mistakes.

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