Homesex movieThe Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012) Movie Sex & Nudity

The Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012) Movie Sex & Nudity

A boy is seen modeling a tight gold-colored speedo. The outlines of his intimate areas are somewhat visible, but nothing is shown outright.
Sex is a big part of the story, and it’s implied (mildly for some) all characters encounter it at some point during the movie, without any actual scenes shown. It’s implied that Sam has been sexually active since age 11, when she was first kissed by her dad’s boss. Although she no longer randomly “hooks up,” she and others state how in freshman year people would get her drunk and that she had a reputation.
While acting along with The Rocky Horror Picture Show, we see several boys and girls and dance suggestively. Boys cross dress. Patrick, in high heels, a bustier, and garter belt, sits on Charlie’s lap, caressing his face. Sam dances in a bra and panties, and lets Charlie touch her breasts. Charlie is stripped down to gold briefs at one point.
Patrick tells Charlie a gross (non-graphic) story about a couple from the high school who sneaked out to have sex one night. They forgot condoms, and used sandwich bags instead.
There is a brief mention of “blowjobs.”

Charlie was abused by his aunt, and feels guilty because he wish her dead and she in fact dies in an accident
At a party Charlie comes to a room and finds Patrick and Brad are kissing. Then Patrick tells him not to tell anybody about it.
When Sam and Charlie were making out, Sam touches Charlie’s leg, and Charlie gets really nervous because he starts thinking about how his Aunt would abuse him (Aunt Helen abusing him is NOT shown, but it is implied).
Patrick, a gay student, tells Charlie his experiences. He and Brad have had a secret relationship, and we hear details about how Brad had to get drunk before “fooling around” or having sex. Charlie catches the two on a bed (clothed) just about to kiss passionately. We learn that Brad’s father also caught the two at another point.
Patrick passionately kisses Charlie, then breaks down crying in his arms.
In Charlie’s “relationship” with Mary Elizabeth, we see shots of them kissing, cuddling, and Charlie fondling her (clothed) breasts. Charlie later says that he was tired of touching her boobs. On their first date, Mary Elizabeth tries to get Charlie drunk for sex, giving him a bottle of wine, resting her head on his leg, and pulling down her dress, revealing her bra. This fails when her parents come home.
Sam and Charlie kiss passionately a few times. Sam rubs Charlie’s leg, which makes him nervous (for other reasons).
It is revealed at the end of the film that Charlie was molested by his Aunt Helen when he was a child. Nothing at all is shown.


Film review:Translated by www.rabudo-ru.com


Although it was raining in the night sky, on the way back, I just wanted to poke out the roof like Emma & Lerman in the film and shout we are infinite in the wind

We sing. We dance. We steal things.

This is the attitude of youth

Have you ever had such an experience:

Seeing the busy crowd will be at a loss

At the Carnival Party of new and old friends, everyone was full of pride and singing to each other, but you stayed in your small corner and wanted to stop talking

God knows how hard you try to integrate into the social circle in front of you, but every time you end up fruitless and leave sadly, no one will notice

On the one hand, you always feel depressed lonely and helpless when you are alone. You want to shout loudly, be heard and be understood

On the other hand, you stubbornly resist anyone to set foot in your world, stubbornly pretend to be completely indifferent and calm, deceive yourself and others, and say to yourself again and again, “everything will be all right, I just need a little time and adjustment.”

Without your own opinion, you always say no, and then you are pulled by your friends and classmates to participate in various activities you had no intention of participating in. Finally, you end up with the enjoyment of your friends without suspense, but you stand aside all the time, like an excluded outsider with marginal personality, indifferent and powerless

You are deeply trapped in the depression of not being accepted by your friends. In the long run, you are used to being ignored, so you are completely numb. You don’t want to be cynical and complain about others. You are only willing to bury yourself in the only topics you are interested in. How sad to entertain yourself

What’s more, not only have foreign troubles not been eliminated, but also domestic worries remain

Because you don’t socialize, there are always secrets and unbearable pain in your heart

The lingering shadow of childhood, the embarrassing atmosphere of the family, the grief of the death of relatives and friends, the loneliness of the lack of close friends, the sadness of fruitless secret love, the contempt for oneself, and the curiosity, suspicion, fear and hatred of the world

I don’t know why I came to this life, and I don’t know how to say goodbye to everyone with a smile

You are like a wallflower, growing twisted in the dark corner

This flower has never bathed in the outdoors and enjoyed the exposure of the sun without fear like other adolescent individuals with publicized personality. Therefore, it grows dark and sharp barbs, which exist in this disharmonious land as an alien

It was not until the house was finally demolished that people saw the wall flowers growing in the backlight wither in the ruins

How cruel and sad.

If you have had a similar experience with the above parts, you can certainly see your shadow in Charlie played by Logan Leman

The film begins with a long shot of high-speed driving in the dark tunnel in the evening, which has a symbolic meaning. This feeling of depression, depression and confusion is like the puberty that every teenager has to experience. At the turning point of growth and the node where his outlook on life, values and world outlook are initially sound, he always feels that his future is bleak without warning from time to time, It’s too dark to see the way forward

The protagonist Charlie is such a typical high school freshman who lost himself in adolescence. His personality is shy and introverted. He has suffered major setbacks such as the death of his aunt in a car accident and the suicide of his best friend. His lack of understanding of the world and his suspicion and negation of himself make Charlie more and more autistic:

From the first day of school, he had no expectations for high school life, but counted down in his heart how many days he could graduate from school

In the literature class, when facing the teacher’s questions, he was clearly confident, but he didn’t dare to raise his hand or even look up for any eye communication. He just quietly wrote down the correct answer in his notebook. I’m afraid Charlie would have to go a long way on the wrong road if he hadn’t found Charlie’s talent in time

When eating in the canteen, like the Karen family in twilight1, they always sit in a corner away from the crowd, eat their own food and read their own books. They are either excluded or completely unable to get in

Every day when I come home from school, I see nonsense such as a quarrel between my sister and my boyfriend

"You see things, you keep quiet about them, and you understand. "

This is a true portrayal of Charlie’s whole state, a handsome boy who makes people feel distressed and sorry.

Fortunately, Charlie happened to know Sam (Emma Watson) and her gay cousin Patrick (Ezra Miller) at a ball game. In the process of getting along with them, Charlie gradually began to learn to try to socialize, try to open his heart and try to live himself

When the plot developed to this stage, it did not enter the established routine of “melancholy youth out of the shadow and see the sun again” expected by the audience. Charlie did have positive changes in his mentality and behavior after knowing Sam and Patrick, but in fact, his cowardice and indecision were not eradicated, and he still failed to get rid of his fate as a wallflower:

All kinds of parties and dances can only hold a glass of juice and stand silently against the wall, casting envious and helpless eyes on all kinds of peers on the dance floor

When playing the truth adventure, he was able to speak wittily and eloquently by knocking the illegal drug powder, which attracted the favor of many female students. After he woke up, he could only be himself who hesitated and didn’t know what to say

In the face of Sam’s active showdown and confession and kissing, I clearly have feelings for her, but I always passively participate in this seemingly ambiguous and ambiguous relationship like a wooden man in my ambiguous relationship with Sam. Finally, this secret love ended fruitlessly. When Sam asked why he didn’t take the initiative to chase himself at the beginning, he could only sigh that this situation can be remembered

……

Charlie is not reborn, but he is not completely out of the trouble of autism:

At least, he still clumsily participated in the Rocky Horror reality show with his friends

Kind hearted, he took the trouble to tutor Sam to study sat, and finally helped her enter the ideal university in her mind

After Patrick was abandoned by his gay boyfriend and was ridiculed and tripped in the canteen, Charlie’s bloody side finally broke out. He learned to fight injustice and stand up for his friends instead of running away again and again

Just as Charlie entered a new life path under the company and guidance of his friends, the author and director waved back Charlie to the original point again, and even went back to the darker abyss after the starting point

The day of graduation finally came, and friends also had their own belongings and went their separate ways to pursue their ideals

I don’t know if everyone reading this article has the illusion that a moment will flash at the moment of separation like Charlie, that is, we have been familiar with our classmates for many years, but when you stand in front of me and say goodbye, the distance between us is really far away, just like we have never known before. I can’t accept it. I lost my affection for a few years. After hugging and saying goodbye, maybe I will never contact or meet again

Charlie, who seems to have integrated into the social circle, actually has only two friends, Sam and Patrick, that’s all

Without their company, all kinds of haze began to flow into Charlie’s mind wantonly: the death of his aunt, the suicide of his best friend, and the tension between his classmates… Charlie attributed all the sources of all his misfortunes to his incompetence like schizophrenia. He began to consider and bear too many things that shouldn’t happen at this age, Depressed and ill, he chose suicide like all people devastated by depression and mental illness, and was left in hospital after his attempt

The reunion after a long separation has really become an opportunity to untie Charlie’s heart knot. This is beginning to show from Charlie’s indifference in looking back on his hazy feelings and his perception of his family

At the end of the film, Charlie leans out of the car to embrace the world with his arms outstretched, and reads out his inner monologue word by word. There is no doubt that Charlie has completely come out of the long and dark closed tunnel at the beginning and is about to gallop on the bright road full of blood and hope

We. Are. Infinite. More than a thousand words

Then I want to briefly talk about the role of Sam played by Emma

First of all, the role itself is too beautiful to be described with two words. Sam’s powerful aura is the best proof of Emma’s transformation from Hermione in Harry and Potter. The shape of short hair is as dry, treason and charming as the two Lancome perfume advertisements she photographed before.

Sam, the queen of communication at the school flower level, also represents a considerable number of people in real life: their appearance shows maturity and delicacy, which is completely different from the fragility and hesitation of their peers. They are always the hottest topic in the circle of friends, the center of the world and the darling of God. It seems that they are never so perfect like fireworks, Never rush, no trouble, no sadness

In fact, when you really walk into the heart of Sam’s role, you will find how hard it is to smile and try to put together and pretend to be strong and strong with vulnerability. Every day, you experience the cycle from strong to fragile. People are impeccable in front of you, but you can’t even find a real friend to hug and cry

In fact, it’s not easy for everyone. They often feel that they are going to be unable to live. At the same time, they only see the bright side of others, and they are greedy for new people

The moss in the corner always green too fast

Memories slowly get up

Make a cup of hot coffee

Drink some stubborn thought

We didn’t learn until the end

Who comforts you when you cry

And growing up makes people feel tired

But there is no way to retreat

I also want to talk about the role of Patrick. Miller has indisputably dedicated the most talented, intense and amazing shocking performance of the film. The reason why Patrick is unforgettable is not just that he is a fearless and indomitable gay youth. His real valuable quality is his kindness to treat people, things and things honestly. In short, he is another kind of person in our life, It seems uninhibited, full of ruffians, bad and unreasonable, but once something happens, no matter how big or small, he will always rush to the front and carry it down, and then deal with it thousands of times more reliable than any decent person

Finally, I would like to say that almost everyone will encounter the trough period, dark period, confusion period and the period from being entangled in various negative emotions and complicated affairs to collapse. At this time, you will feel helpless and desperate, lose the motivation to continue to live, and even have the idea of suicide, but please make more efforts and stick to it for your friends and family, Live well, time will prove that there is really nothing that can’t pass

When facing such a special period, if you can have friends to spend with you, guide you, listen to you tell your thoughts, comfort you and give you strength, it is the best thing. You are lucky. These friends are definitely friends you should treat with sincerity all your life, and they are worthy of your eternal gratitude to them

If you have no choice but to live alone, also remember, don’t give up. No matter how much you live in the world, as long as you are still alive, you can still see the sun rise again, and you still have the opportunity to find a goal worth fighting for and dedicating your life. This is a very sad hurdle, but once you bravely take the first step and choose to face and challenge, there will be no difficulties that can make you fear and shrink from now on. Finally, you will be reborn in such unforgettable pain experience

Friends who know me better know that I had an experience of extreme autism and depression in the middle of the year. It is no exaggeration to say that I am really the same as Charlie in the film. I don’t talk, participate in social activities, don’t know how to get out of my small world, and I am tortured by the haze that comes to my heart every day

At that time, I couldn’t understand why I lost all the ability to read, write, communicate and love life in an instant, and I didn’t know how months were wasted in a muddle

My mother took me to see a psychologist. I clearly remember that doctor said to me with great sincerity, “Child, you are great, but you really pursue perfection. You are not allowed to make any mistakes in what you want to accomplish, which will make you very tired. Listen to me, empty yourself for two months, don’t do anything with high intensity, just have a good rest for two months, and everything will be fine.”

After hearing these words, I treated myself as a patient. When I got home, I just went crazy and wanted to look for books, articles and things to prove that I was not ill, but the facts proved that all this was futile. I couldn’t concentrate on anything at all

It’s really difficult to get out, because there will be a contradictory dilemma:

In this special period, you can’t see, hear or think, but you must find enough energy and motivation from reading, music and social interaction to help you get rid of autism

According to my personal experience, I want to say that the best way is to face the facts, be honest with yourself and others

Admitting that you have defects is definitely not cowardice, but preparation for growing stronger. Only when you really empty yourself can you see more and see farther, and then you can go lighter and fly more

There will always be a time when you want to scream, sing and dance

There will always be a time when you will be confident in yourself, grateful to your friends, relatives and lovers, and full of hope for the world

We sing. We dance. We steal things. This is the attitude that youth should bloom

My dear , dear friends, please keep in heart,

Nobody will blame you for being who you are, they blame you for pretending to be someone else.

I want to help you through everything, so that you don’t have to go through what I had gone through, but sometimes life don’t allow us to take the short cut.

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